8 Signs You’re Actually Not In Love With Your Partner Anymore After Few Years Married
1. At least one person seems distant and unhappy.
If you no longer want to connect or talk as much, or answer questions quickly and curtly, these are all strong indicators that you are unhappy in the relationship.
2. You are no longer attracted to your partner
When you’re first together, most couples can’t keep their hands off each other, which is amazing, but eventually it will naturally slow down a bit.
3. You stop communicating
The most important part of a relationship is communication – if you don’t have it, you don’t respect each other and clearly don’t feel for the other as you do for yourself.
4. You don’t care if you’re with someone else
In a healthy relationship, this thought should make you upset and uneasy, but if you are out of love, you essentially don’t care.
5. You no longer see a future with them
When you think about your life in the next few years, is your partner still a part of it? Or are you fantasizing about a solo adventure?
6. You have lost respect for them
If you have lost respect for your partner, there is really no going back. Who wants to be with someone they can’t respect? And who doesn’t return the respect they deserve?
7. You feel apathetic or bored.
All the little habits you once neglected or maybe even found adorable. But if you start to get so bored with these tendencies that you even get into fights over them, that suggests a change.
8. You Fantasize About Ways to Leave Them
If your daydreams about the future of your relationship have turned into fantasies of release, then I think it’s safe for some to have lost that loving feeling.