Women may experience jealousy, especially when encountering someone more beautiful and younger by chance. However, no woman can defy the passage of time; inevitably, youth fades. Wise women recognize that beauty and youth should not be measures of worth, as women excel in various aspects beyond physical appearance.
1. Know your true value
Obviously, despite being women, some are loved and cherished, while others are hurt and trampled. Why do some people live leisurely and comfortably, while others are trapped in mental suffering?
It’s not a matter of fate, nor is it a matter of the husband they choose. Women are better than each other in how valuable they are. A woman values herself like a flower, even in a swamp, there are still people who are infatuated with its beauty and fragrance. As for the woman who only thinks of herself as a weed, even if she chooses to go to the royal palace, she will not be cherished.
If you think you are worthy of love and respect, you will meet a man who will cherish you all your life. How you treat yourself will determine how men treat you. Therefore, do not be under the illusion that a man’s love can turn you from “stone” to “silver and gold”. Only you are the one who determines your value, and men will be the ones who “buy” those values. If it’s high, they appreciate it, if it’s low, they despise it.
2. Know who is the man for you
In fact, some married women sleep with tears every night, and some also smile in their dreams. Women have different ways of choosing and keeping the man who is truly for them. The man for you is not the most elite or perfect one, but he is probably the one who sincerely loves you the most. He may not be rich, but he is willing to try tirelessly for you. He may be full of flaws, but he is “just right” for you.
3. Enough charisma and pride
Beautiful appearance, youthful appearance does not follow a woman her whole life. Only charisma and pride can help women stand out over the years. Charisma is beauty that comes from experience, maturity in the spirit, from a calm yet steadfast appearance.
Courtesy is a beauty that comes from self-respect that women nurture, an immutable value and boundary that women do not let anyone touch. With charisma and pride, a woman will not fade away no matter where she goes.
4. Wise enough, humble enough
Women in life, the beautiful one is not necessarily as wise as the wise one. Women at first glance appear to be superior in beauty, but in reality they are superior in mind. A smart woman knows what she wants, what she needs, what to do to be “luxurious”, and how to protect herself.
5. Know what you need and what you have
Women at birth can be better than each other in terms of family background and what God gives them when they are born. But that is only a “preliminary asset”, so that when they grow up, women will be better than each other in their self-awareness.
Knowing what they have and what they need, women can easily be at peace in a complicated life. Women do not win over flashy and frivolous things, but the feeling of happiness and peace in their hearts.
