Valerie Bertinelli is all about body positivity these days, and she recently posted a daring underwear selfie. While many fans cheered her on, a handful had negative comments about how inappropriate it was.
The actress took a makeup-free photo in the bathroom, leaning casually beside the sink.
She was wearing a black two-piece outfit, her hair down, and holding a box of hair dye up to the camera.
Bertinelli shared in the post, “At some point I will talk about the madness my body has been through this year. At this moment, every little lump, bump, wrinkle, and sag just brings a sense of acceptance and a straightforward appreciation for being in front of a mirror in a hotel bathroom in downtown Manhattan, gearing up to color my roots on a late Monday night.”
Fans had varied opinions about her exposing photo, with some claiming it was too much, writing, “That’s great for you, but you don’t have to show everyone.” Some followers weren’t afraid to share their thoughts, stating, “Have you lost your mind posting this photo? Why not consider some therapy?”
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Another irritated user commented, “Honestly, I really don’t need to see this. What’s up with that??? Wow, seriously?” A rougher critic begged, “Oh come on. Show a little dignity, will you?” Meanwhile, one commentator completely dismissed the post, adding, “Who cares!!! “Hey, put your clothes on.”
Another commenter commented that Valerie Bertinelli might be seeking approval, writing, “Honestly you’re quite lovely and don’t need to post an underwear picture. If you’re looking for some compliments, you’ll definitely find them here, but seriously, why do you need them?”
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However, not everyone threw shade. One fan complimented her look, saying, “Looking fabulous!!❤️.” Other fans cheered for her boldness, saying, “You look great! Thanks for sharing! You’re truly an inspiration to everyone around you.” An admirer captured the vibe perfectly, saying, “Valerie you look fantastic! ♥️.”
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Bertinelli has come a long way toward accepting her physique.
Even though she had a great physique, she struggled to take herself in her youth and could only truly appreciate her ankles as a characteristic she appreciated. She’s now all about enjoying her body and accepting everything that comes with age, including cellulite and drooping skin, as a badge of honor.
Bertinelli’s journey of self-love prompted her to write “Enough Already: Learning to Love the Way I Am Today,” which will be published in 2022. Bertinelli discussed her book and pondered on how her upbringing in the spotlight, from childhood to maturity, influenced her in ways she didn’t fully understand until later in life.
The actress has realized that her belief that she needed everyone’s approval was a fallacy. She added that the entertainment industry conditioned her to believe that gaining weight made her unlovable, but she has now realized that this is not the case. Bertinelli is currently focused on discovering self-acceptance and consciously enjoying bliss.
Eventually, she learned to dismiss their criticisms. After speaking with her therapist about her wish to let go of her resentment, she began to take those comments about her weightless seriously.
Bertinelli stated that she has shifted her focus away from the scale and does not check her weight as frequently. Instead, she measures her progress based on how her pants fit, particularly a favorite pair. She emphasized that true growth is all about performing the inner work rather than being fixated on external figures.
Bertinelli has been working on redefining her relationship with food, transforming what could have been a weakness into a true strength. Food, previously a sign of affection from her mother and grandmother, has revived her devotion, particularly through her job on the “Food Network.”
Bertinelli now understands that her heart, mind, and the way she respects others are what makes her valuable.
The actress hopes that by sharing her journey, she might inspire others to be kinder to themselves. She believes that doing so will help her develop her self-compassion. She wants to reach out to someone who could benefit from her message of accepting who they are.
