10 Signs You Are Too Good For Him (He Doesn’t Deserve You)
1. You can’t really be around him
If he makes you feel bad about yourself or your sense of humor to the point that you can no longer be yourself, dump him off his sorry ass. When your friends are noticing the situation too, then don’t wait another day and get rid of this burden of a relationship. He is not worth it.
2. He just doesn’t make any real effort
Relationships are not one-way, but both partners need to work to get things worked out. But if you see that you’ve been the only one trying all this time, then you should pump the brakes for a second and ask yourself what you’re doing with a man like that.
Trust me, it’s better to stay single than to waste your life with an immature jerk like him. And the sooner you let him go, the better it will be for you.
3. He acts as if everything you say is boring
If he doesn’t get excited about anything related to you, that’s not something you should put up with for long. When he can’t even muster a shred of interest in what you have to say, he’s clearly not showing any respect, or even basic curtness. He probably doesn’t even have to be pampered and given constant attention, but when there isn’t even a little bit of that, it may be time to part ways.
4. He’s inconsiderate of your feelings
When you are being thoughtful and respectful, you have every reason to expect the same in return. Being inconsiderate about your feelings, whether in private or in public or in front of friends and family, is one of the biggest signs that you are too good for him. It doesn’t even matter if you do it just because of your own insecurities or because you are a real jerk.
5. He always needs to cheer up
It takes a lot of energy to stay positive, and if you have to do it for both of you, it’s probably not worth it. When he’s down every day, he’s either depressed (and should seek help) or he’s an energy vampire who’s needlessly draining you. If you start to feel like you have more fun when he’s not around, maybe it’s time to quit.
6. He expects you to pick up the check
Every couple handles finances differently. Some couples go for half, others pool funds… whatever you decide, however, you should both be making equal contributions. If you find that you are paying for everything, it’s time for a serious talk. After all, the only thing worse than getting mugged is losing all your money while you’re at it.
7. He doesn’t take responsibility for anything
A man who always finds someone else to blame for every bad thing that happens is not someone you should want by your side in the long run. When there’s always an excuse why he’s not doing more for himself or you, let him loose.
8. None of your friends like him, but all your friends like you
Friends can often act as one of the signs that you are too good for him, especially when all your friends are excited about you, but your own friends can’t really stand your boyfriend. However, if this is the only red flag, and everything else is in order, don’t be too quick to give up on a working relationship.
9. He expects you to take care of him
One of the clearest signs that you are dating a jerk is that once you get the girlfriend tag he starts treating you like a maid and a personal assistant. Don’t put up with him.
10. You simply can’t see your future together
If you can’t imagine being with him in a year, let alone five, that’s definitely one of the signs that you’re too good for him, or at least that you’re mismatched. When your goals include running your own company and his are limited to earning just enough to get the latest game console and smartphone, let him go.
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