10 Things Husbands Want to Hear from Their Wives
The universal love language for men is respect. Husbands yearn to feel esteemed, praised, and validated. Here are ten things that all husbands need to hear from their wives:
1. “I appreciate you.”
Encourage your husband’s hard work. Let him know that you appreciate his hard work and how he provides for your family.
2. “I’m glad I’m your wife.”
As simple as it sounds, husbands want to know that their wives are happy with their marriage and truly appreciate just being with them.
3. “I feel safe and secure with you.”
Show your husband that his protection is important and that his presence is needed.
4. “I’m really attracted to you. You are the man!”
Your husband needs to know that he is the man for the job! Tell him he’s sexy and compliment his best features.
5. “I’m so grateful for your spiritual leadership.”
Many men want to be seen as the spiritual janitors of their family. Encourage your husband in his faith and for taking his spiritual leadership role seriously.
6. “You’re an outstanding father.”
Deep in every man’s heart is the desire to be seen as a hero – especially to his children. Tell your husband why he is an exceptional father in front of your children. Encourage your children to love their father with kind words.
7. “I missed you.”
Let your husband know that you missed him during the day. If he goes away, let him know that you can’t wait for him to come back. He needs to know that he is loved and needed.
8. “Thank you for being dependable.”
Show your gratitude when your husband takes care of daily needs. Always thank him for the things he does, like filling your gas tank, taking out the trash, putting air in your tires, etc.
9. “I believe in you.”
Encourage your husband to always be the best he can be. Let him know you believe in him by saying it.
10. “I appreciate how hard you work to provide for our family.”
There are many things in life that your husband cannot control, but one he can control is effort. It brings him great pleasure to work hard and see the results. Encourage his great work ethic.