How to get Your Husband To Stop Looking At Other Women
Men looking at other women or checking out women have been customary. With the percentage of beautiful women out there, it is almost impossible not to admire other people. Also, men are naturally wired to pay attention when they see attractive women.
How to get him to stop looking at other women
1. Don’t ignore him
Chances are he won’t notice when you do it, but mentioning it will help solidify your concerns. Just say something like, “Do you know he stares at women? Or ask him why he is staring at other women and discuss the issue. For example, he may rely on, “oh! That dress is beautiful!” knowing that you really want to know will make him tell the truth, which can be a good discussion topic.
2. Tell him how it makes him feel.
It is crucial that he knows how it makes you feel when he checks out another woman. Tell him when he looks at the woman’s body or makes inappropriate comments, makes you feel frustrated, jealous, angry, or disrespected.
3. Help him know that he can control you
You can tell your husband what he could do differently in the future. For example, you can say, “In the future, I would like you to try to show more respect for my friends and me by not looking at them that way.” Tell your partner that he can control him; after all, the world is full of beautiful women.
4. Don’t make a fuss about it
I agree, it’s annoying when your man shamelessly stares at another woman in your presence. However, it is best to control yourself. Gently call his attention to it by saying, “caught you!” Or “do you need me to call her for you.” And you both will probably laugh over it.
5. Work on your self-esteem
Self-esteem is confidence in your self-worth. If your man looking at other women significantly affects you, you should consider yourself worthy enough or unique in your way. His wandering eyes will not affect you because you know there will always be women more beautiful than you.
