10 Secrets Things That Your Man Wants You To Know But Won’t Tell You
1. He occasionally wants to spend time alone or with his friends without you.
Men love having their wives around, but everyone needs a break. Being able to go out with friends from time to time and just spend time alone is one of the best gifts you can give him. He wants you to have things to do with your friends and not be at home waiting for them. Your independence is an attractive quality.
2. He is even more attracted to you when you are not always available to him.
Too available can also mean too easy. If you are not challenging to us, then we lose what is often one of the most exciting aspects of a budding relationship – the thrill of the chase.
3. He is secretly vulnerable
Men are considered the alphas of their home, but deep down they are often insecure about their role as husband and father. Your husband may project a tough, solid façade to the world, but he needs your validation and reassurance from time to time. Tell him more often that he is doing just fine.
4. He’s not a mind reader either.
It would be much better for everyone if you said so directly. If you expect us to read between the lines, understand that you are taking a risk. The direct approach is often much better, especially if it’s something important to you.
5. He doesn’t want to have to call and text you all day.
Men don’t like to be forced to do things. They like to call you because they want to, not because they are forced to. He knows you think it’s sweet when he calls you to say goodnight, so he does it to please you. But he doesn’t really want to.
6. He loves your family, but doesn’t want to spend 24 hours a day with them.
Family is always a touchy subject. Your boyfriend is dating you, not your family. Sure, he respects and cares about your family, but he doesn’t need to be with them every weekend. Seeing them once a week is a good thing.
7. He hates it when you bring up his past mistakes.
Everyone hates it when you bring up their past mistakes. He also hates it when you hold a grudge.
8. He wants you to want him
This stems from a strong need to be accepted. If you can give him this, it will build his confidence as a husband, provider and man. Also, sex is essential to a happy married life.
9. He hates it when you compare him to other men.
He gets hurt when you start comparing him to other men in your life. He especially hates it when you compare him to his exes.
