8 signs that she is testing you and will eventually fall for you
1. She cancels or postpones plans
She may cancel a date for no reason or ask you to reschedule a lunch or dinner. She wants to know how much effort you would put into dating her. A man who is serious about her will try at least twice to take her on a date. The one who gives up or forgets about her may not be “the one” for her. However, if she cancels more than twice, you should understand that she is not interested in you.
2. She seems close and distant at the same time
Have you ever been in a situation where you think a girl is already yours, only to have her leave you cold within minutes? She’s testing you, brother. If you really care about her, you’ll push her harder. She wants you to feel like you worked really hard to get her, not that you got her effortlessly.
3. She pays attention to your relationship with others
She will take note of how you talk to others and how you treat them. This will tell her a lot about you, more than the things you say to her. If you treat people in a way that contradicts what she stands for, you are more likely to lose her. Be careful how you treat others in front of the girl you are pursuing.
4. She is sometimes rude for no reason
This is a sign that a girl is testing you. In this case, she is testing your level of anger and your reaction when she is provoked. Manners make the man! The way you treat them when you are angry says a lot about your character!
5. She asks you for help
A girl knows that if you like her, you’d like to be her hero. She asks for help with little things that she could easily do herself. A girl wants to know that she triggers your hero instinct, so don’t miss the opportunity to take one of the usual “boyfriend material” tests.
6. She asks about your past relationships
If she wants to know about your past relationships, that means she wants to know more about your romantic history and the type of partner you were. How your relationship ended and how you dealt with it gives a unique perspective on the person’s psychological and emotional profile.
7. She asks about your future/goals
If she is interested in you, she will be interested in your future plans. She will ask you what you want out of life and where you see yourself in the next 5, 10 and 20 years. This indicates that she wants something long-term and wants to know where you fit into her future plans or vice versa. Are you planning to get married, have children or change careers?
8. She opens up to you from time to time
She will tell you a lot about herself. She may give you lots of information that may seem irrelevant to you. This information includes her favorite color, the name of her first pet or her best childhood memory. These are the things you need to remember to pass this test. This is a sign that you are listening carefully during conversations.
