Beware! If Your Man Does These 7 Things, He’s Majorly Insecure
Most women have found themselves caught up in toxic and unhealthy relationships with insecure men.
Insecure people are those who “lack confidence and doubt their own abilities … Insecure people have low confidence and are uncertain about their own abilities or whether other people really like them.”
To avoid another broken heart caused by dating insecure men, here are 7 signs of insecurity to watch out for.
1. He has no friends or outside interests and you are everything to him.
He never mentions any friends and doesn’t hang out with anyone but you. He has no interests or hobbies.
You are his world, the center of his universe, his reason for living. Being the center of your world is not all it is cracked up to be. That’s too much pressure to live up to.
And what happens when you hit a bump in the road in your relationship? When things aren’t going well, your world falls apart. It falls apart because you are your world.
2. Extreme jealousy is one of the signs of insecurity in a relationship
He is jealous of the time you spend with your friends. He often calls you and sends you text messages to check on you when you are out without him.
3. He thinks you are being ᴜɴғᴀɪᴛʜғᴜʟ.
He can’t shake his suspicions that you are ¢нєαтing on him. He may accuse you of flirting with the employee, having an affair with a co-worker, or just looking for someone better.
4. He needs constant validation.
He often asks you questions like, “Do you love me?” He fishes for compliments. Then, when you assure him that you find him attractive, he doesn’t believe you.
5. He stalks you on Facebook and other social networks and checks your phone.
He follows you and always knows what you’re up to. He always wants to know about every message you receive, what you talk about, and what your history is like with this person you are meeting.
6. He talks about his exes and how they вєtrαчed him.
According to him, his exes never really loved him. He insists that in all past relationships, he was the innocent victim. No one loved him. They used him and вєtrαчed him. This may be true and the reason he is so insecure, or it may be in his head because of his insecurity.
7. Your state of mind depends on you.
It is normal and it is good to be sensitive to your partner’s moods, but with an insecure man, your mood will totally depend on you. If you are happy and loving toward him, he will be in a good mood. If you are frazzled, trying to juggle a thousand things, and you don’t have time to constantly reassure him that you are in love with him, he will be sad and depressed.
His co-dependent behavior puts extraordinary pressure on you to be in a good mood all the time, so that he doesn’t go downhill.
