If You and Your Partner Have Chemistry, You Will Feel These Powerful Signs
Chemistry is the energetic attraction between two people that no words, reason or personality assessment can explain. When there is chemistry in a relationship, dopamine receptors are activated, causing a rush of strong emotions. Lovers experience a euphoria that is often described as intoxicating and even addictive.
Chemistry can make or break your relationship. In healthy relationships, chemistry can enhance intimacy. If left unchecked, chemistry can be blinding, which can cause some people to burn through important steps in building trust in a relationship and make high-risk commitments, such as moving in together.
Understanding that there is chemistry in your relationship can help you put your feelings into perspective and inject them with a healthy dose of logic before making important choices.
To find out if there is chemistry between you and your partner, look for the following signs:
1. You think about him or her…often.
When there is chemistry in a relationship, it can be hard to stop thinking about the other person. You may be distracted at work or have trouble sleeping because your partner’s fantasies are constantly drawing you in. Others may notice that you talk about your relationship often. This is so good!
2. Body language
Women tend to play with their hair, lick their lips and cross their legs in an attempt to get your attention. Men, on the other hand, get sweaty hands because they are eager to stay by your side. Deep breaths, colored cheeks, unconsciously mimicking each other, leaning in towards the person and unconsciously touching each other are all signs that give you away, regardless of your gender.
3. Intense eye contact
When you feel an attraction to someone, you unconsciously keep looking at them, seeing what they are wearing or doing and trying to make eye contact. But when she catches you looking at her, you shy away. These are examples of intense eye contact between the two of you while talking or interacting with the person. Other telltale signs of eye chemistry are dilated pupils, raised eyebrows, eye-to-lip gaze, and concentrated, unblinking eye contact.
4. Captivation and infatuation
You feel drawn to each other for no apparent reason. You may have only exchanged a few words and barely know each other, but that familiar feeling is there all the time. Sometimes you wonder if you’ve ever met this person, because it seems impossible to be so connected to someone you’re just getting to know.
No matter what is going on around you, this special person has your full attention. He or she cracks you up and captivates you completely.
5. You want physical intimacy
Chemistry can create intense feelings of sexual attraction, but that’s not all. Chemistry is magnetic. It brings couples together through the desire to be close to each other. If there is chemistry in your relationship, you and your partner may want to sit close together on the couch, hold hands, scratch each other’s backs, lean in close when you talk and spend more time together than you do with other friends or family members.
6. You speak the same language
This is someone you can confide in, with whom you have common interests, with whom you can develop mutual trust right from the start, and the person all matchmakers would tell you is the right one for you. No matter what you talk about, you understand each other without the need for long explanations. This person understands you better than your long-time friends and even family members. In fact, sometimes it seems that they understand you even better than you understand yourself.
7. You are always focused on each other
When you are among a few friends or in a larger group of people, you always pay attention to what your chemical other half has to say, even in situations where everyone else chooses to ignore her completely.
Sometimes you notice that she is listening to you, even if she shows no sign of it, because she is the only one giving you feedback.
Not to mention the fact that you are only focused on her, there is no doubt that the strong chemistry is mutual.
