The relationship with the in-laws can be a challenging one. The truth is that things turn even messier when the spouse sides with his parents instead with his significant other, and these ‘issues’ don’t necessarily get easier to deal with as time passes.

A woman named Evelyn took to Reddit to ask if she was in the wrong for revealing to everyone on the social media about the treatment she received by her in-laws during a visit prior to the holiday.

Here’s her story

I’m Evelyn, and if you think your holiday was rough, you might want to hear this one. Imagine a cozy family Christmas with two adorable newborns.

Now, imagine all of that going completely wrong. Let me set the stage for you: twins, a creepy barn, and in-laws who somehow managed to make me feel more like the hired help than part of the family.

It all started innocently enough. My husband, Mike, and I had been married for two years, and this Christmas was a big one—it was our twins’ first. Naturally, Mike’s parents invited us to stay at their house for two weeks. “It’ll be wonderful!” his mother had gushed over the phone. “We can finally meet our grandchildren!”

Of course, I was excited. Who wouldn’t be? I imagined two blissful weeks of rest, with Mike’s parents helping out with the babies, maybe even giving us a few precious hours of sleep.

I had packed everything with care; enough clothes for the twins, snacks for the plane, even a jar of wildflower honey for my mother-in-law because she’s obsessed with it in her tea. I was ready for the perfect family reunion.

But when we arrived… well, let’s just say things didn’t go as planned.

Mike knocked on the door, and his mom opened it, her eyes lighting up as she spotted the twins. “Oh, look at them! They’re so precious!” she cooed.

The moment we stepped inside, my inlaws practically pounced, sweeping the babies up, smothering them with kisses, and cooing over their every little movement. And honestly, that part made me happy. That’s what every mother wants, right? To see her children loved, adored, cherished.

But then, things started to get strange. The more time passed, the more it became clear that this wasn’t the warm, family-filled Christmas I had imagined.

After we settled in, my father-in-law handed Mike a glass of wine, while his mom beamed, holding one of the twins. “Oh, Evelyn, we’ve set up your room,” she said, her voice a little too cheerful.

“Oh great, where are we staying?” I asked, expecting the guest room or something nearby.

“Well, Mike will be in his old room,” she said, avoiding my gaze.

I blinked. “And… where will I be?”

She hesitated. “We thought you might appreciate some space. You’ll be in the barn.”

I laughed, thinking it was a joke. “Wait, the barn? As in… an actual barn?”

“Yes, dear. It’s been converted. There’s a heater out there. It’s really quite cozy,” she said, nodding as if that explained everything.

“Cozy? You want me to sleep in the barn? Away from my husband? Away from my kids?” I could feel my voice rising, but I tried to keep calm. Maybe there was some weird reasoning behind this.

Mike, standing behind his mom, shrugged. “It’s not a big deal, Ev. You’re making this into something it’s not.”

“Not a big deal? Mike, it’s a barn. With a bed and a space heater. It smells like hay and… I don’t even know what!” My stomach tightened just thinking about it. “Why would I be out there, while you’re in the house?”

He sighed, taking a sip of his wine. “You’re overreacting. The house is full, and my old room barely fits one person. Plus, the twins need quiet. It’s just for a couple of nights.”

I stared at him, disbelief washing over me. “Mike, we’re married. We have children. What kind of twisted logic is this?”

He rolled his eyes, already done with the conversation. “What are you complaining about? The barn has a bed, doesn’t it? It’s not like you’re roughing it in a tent.”

“You can’t be serious,” I said, my voice shaking. “I just had twins. I thought we’d be together for Christmas, not… separated like teenagers on some church retreat.”

Mike shrugged again as if it was no big deal. “It’s fine. Stop making this into a thing.”

I looked back at the barn, cold dread settling in. This was going to be a long two weeks.

I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. “Wait, where are the twins supposed to sleep?” I asked, my voice tight. I glanced at the barn again, panic rising. There was no way I could fit both babies in a single bed with me, and certainly not in a freezing barn that smelled like hay and dust.

Mike’s mother smiled politely as if she were about to tell me something wonderful. “Oh, we’ve set up a crib for them in our room.”

“In your room?” I repeated, my voice rising.

“Yes,” she nodded. “They’ll be with us. It’s quieter in here. The barn isn’t ideal for the little ones, don’t you think?”

I stood there, dumbfounded. “But… they need to be with me. They’re only a few months old, and they’re not ready to sleep alone yet. They’ve never been away from me at night.”

Mike’s father crossed his arms, his voice firm. “Well, this is how we’ve set it up, Evelyn. Our house, our rules.”

That did it. Something snapped in me. “Your house, your rules?” I repeated, my voice shaking with anger. “You expect me to sleep in a barn while you keep my babies in your room? And Mike gets to sleep comfortably inside? What kind of twisted family reunion is this?”

His mother’s polite smile didn’t waver. “It’s just for a few nights. We thought this arrangement would be easier.”

“Easier?” I scoffed. “Easier for who? Certainly not me!”

I turned to look for Mike, desperately hoping he’d back me up, but he had conveniently disappeared. “Where’s Mike?” I demanded, glancing around the house.

His mother waved her hand dismissively. “Oh, he’s out catching up with some of his old friends from high school. You know how it is.”

My blood boiled. “Of course, he is.”

By that point, I was completely done with the madness. No more trying to make peace. I needed to get out of here before I lost my mind. I took a deep breath, suppressing the urge to scream, and concocted a plan.

I calmly excused myself, marched to the barn, and grabbed my phone. With shaking hands, I snapped photos of the “vacation home” and the barn setup they had so graciously prepared for me. Then, I booked the earliest flight out of there.

Back in the barn, I fired off a quick message to Mike: “I’m taking the twins and leaving. Enjoy your time with your friends.”

At the airport, with the twins sleeping peacefully in my arms, I sat down and pulled out my phone. I nibbled on some chocolate and uploaded the barn photos to Facebook, spilling all the ugly details about how Mike and his family had treated me.

Then, with a sigh of relief, I boarded the plane, turned off my phone, and felt something I hadn’t felt in days—freedom.

Right now, my phone is still blowing up with furious messages. Mike’s latest one reads, “How could you embarrass my parents like that? Delete the post. Now.”

I stare at it, half laughing, half seething. Embarrass them? Like sleeping in a barn wasn’t humiliating enough? His parents had been awful, treating me like some unwanted guest, and now, I’m supposed to apologize?

Another message pops up from my mother-in-law, “You’re spoiled and ungrateful! We opened our home to you, and this is how you repay us?”

I can’t help but roll my eyes. Sure, a barn. So generous.

Then my brother-in-law chimes in, “Evelyn, seriously, delete the post. You’re making the whole family look bad. Just apologize, and we can all move on.”

It’s like they’re all in some delusional group chat, trying to twist this whole thing into my fault. I’m the one who had to sleep in a barn while they kept my newborn twins in the house. But sure, I’m the bad guy here.

“Unbelievable,” I mutter under my breath, tossing my phone onto the kitchen counter.

From across the room, my mom looks up, holding one of the twins, who’s now happily babbling in a matching Christmas onesie. The smell of gingerbread cookies fills the air, making the whole house feel warm and inviting.

“You okay, honey?” she asks, her brow furrowing with concern.

I sigh, running a hand through my hair. “I don’t know, Mom. Mike’s mad at me for posting about what happened, and his whole family is basically calling me the villain. They want me to delete the post and apologize.”

My mom pauses, rocking the baby gently in her arms. “And how do you feel about that?”

I lean against the counter, arms crossed. “Honestly? I don’t regret it. They treated me like dirt, and I just… I don’t understand how Mike doesn’t see it. I’m tired, Mom. Tired of bending over backward to keep the peace.”

She nods, looking down at the baby, her expression soft. “You know, you and the twins are always welcome here. You’re loved. And sometimes, standing up for yourself doesn’t mean keeping everyone happy.”

I glance at the Christmas tree glowing softly in the corner, and the peace I feel here compared to the chaos at Mike’s parents’ house is like night and day.

My phone buzzes again, but I ignore it this time. “Mom, I don’t think I’m going back,” I say quietly, my mind finally made up. “Not after all that.”

She smiles, handing me the other twin, whose tiny fingers curl around mine. “You deserve better, Ev. Don’t ever forget that.”