When a woman falls into a situation where her husband is having an affair, she will be extremely miserable and can only think about finding the best solution. But do women understand the reasons why men want to go out and find other women?
Causes of men having someone
The first reason is the inherent nature of men. Men in ancient times had many wives, which shows that they were extremely greedy and never knew enough.
Not only that, the Creator also gave them a nature that likes to explore, like to possess, and like to take risks. For men, having an affair is a risk-taking game, even if there is a trade-off, they still accept it.
The second is about sexual needs. Men are not like women, women love for affection, while men love just for sublime moments in bed.
Third, this can be seen as a relatively childish and extremely cowardly action. It’s tit for tat, this is when men blame their wives so they go out and have an affair.
Finally, when a man’s self-esteem is no longer affirmed by his wife. At this time, men want to go out and find another woman to respect them.
Losing your family
When a man commits adultery, he will definitely lose his family. No wife can endure the sight of her husband having an affair and still come home and act as if nothing happened.
Curse of loneliness
A person who chooses a lover in old age will be alone for the rest of his life. No woman wants to be around like a traitor.
Not respected
Adultery is terrible behavior and cannot be forgiven. If men have decided to put their heart in their crotch, they have lost their self-respect and the respect of their children and wife.
If you lose the trust of your wife and children, no one out there will want to trust a cheating man again.
