Whether before or after a relationship begins, surely you would never want your crush/partner’s interest in you to reduce or worse, disappear after a while.
While you may not have complete control over what your partner will ultimately do, there are some things you can do on your part to create a conducive environment for love to grow and for affection and attraction to remain, and even grow over time.
Below we suggest to you some of those things:
1. Be consistent
What were you doing that attracted them to you? Never stop doing those things! That’s pretty much the long and short of consistence in romantic relationships.
If someone loves you for something, it would be mad unfair to get them into a relationship and quit doing those things. It would not be a surprise if such partner loses interest in being with you after a while.
2. Don’t be monotonous
Consistence is good, but too much monotony is not. So if you were really sweet to your partner before the relationship began or even at the very beginning of it, you have to keep being sweet – that is consistence.
If you keep expressing the sweetness in the same way at all times, that is monotony and that is not so good.
Look for newer and more creative ways to do the things your partner loves you doing. That’s pretty much what we’re talking about here.
3. Allow each other time out
When you are in love with someone, that does not mean they have to be with you at all times, or that you have to be chatting with each other every single minute of the day, or that they can’t keep friendships or grow in other aspects of their lives.
Allow each other live fully and experience bliss in other facets of life apart from the relationship. It enriches your lives, gives you a fuller experience and makes you better lovers with healthier relationships.
