Women, If you Want Your Relationship To Last Longer, Never Do These Seven Mistakes.
1. Do not be too giving
While it is not wrong to be giving in a relationship, that is what makes the relationship complete, but giving up to a certain point where one’s own needs are placed is something that is not right. The main reason we enter a relationship is for our own personal growth and anything that hinders it is not healthy.
2. Trying to change your partner
When you get into a relationship, you need to take that person for exactly who they are, not for who you want them to be. Don’t criticize and make them feel stupid. Instead, let them know you are aware and encourage them to do better.
3. Don’t take care of yourself or let yourself go
Go to the gym and exercise regularly, as this would keep your mind-body active and also increase your self-image. Sometimes you should wear sexy clothes at home to remind your partner that you have not lost your touch. Also, make sure that you are constantly smelling good and looking clean. This is also likely to make you feel more confident about yourself.
4. Make your partner your only priority
Women tend to give too much attention to their boyfriends or husbands that their own personal lives shrink in the process. Their priority shifts and they begin to focus on their boyfriend or husband while it is not the same with men. Men, on the other hand, make you a priority, but they also know very well how to prioritize themselves well.
4. Not having your own life.
Don’t be one of those girls who forgets about your friends and your interests as soon as you have a man, that never ends well and makes you look needy.
Take time for yourself and use it doing things that would make you feel empowered – be it a hobby or something you’ve been thinking about to focus on for a long time. Nurture your individuality and have your own identity in addition to your partner’s.
5. Always be negative
A relationship needs the combined efforts of both parties to thrive, so someone can’t always be wrong.
Women tend to focus on complaining rather than complimenting. It is one of the most common mistakes and causes of broken relationships. Try to avoid complaining and criticizing every time your partner has a suggestion.
6. Not appreciating him
Again, stop looking at the things he’s not doing and look at what he is doing, and then acknowledge and appreciate him for it! When your partner does small favors for you, recognize the value of what he has done and work towards returning the favor. The more you show him that you appreciate him, the more he will try to please you.
7. Jealous whenever a woman is in your vicinity
If you find yourself jealous whenever a woman is in your vicinity, you need to do some honest checking with yourself. At its root, you either lack confidence in the relationship or you need to build your self-esteem.
