3 Reasons a Husband Should Love his WIFE More Than He Loves his MOTHER
For a marriage to be successful, love alone is not enough. It requires a lot of hard work and a bit of commitment from both spouses, including their families, because marriage is not just about two individuals. But not everyone would talk about the most difficult choice he has to make – whether to give more importance to his parents or his wife. Although this may seem very trivial, but many couples go through a tumultuous period due to this.
3 Reasons why a husband should love his wife more than he loves his mother
1. A healthy marriage has two independent adults who have left their parents
Before you can become one with your spouse, you have to leave your father and mother first. When you get married, you can certainly feel supported and encouraged by your parents, but you cannot allow your parents to have control in your life – and especially not in your marital relationship.
2. Your wife should not feel that she has to compete with your mother for your love, respect, and adoration.
You can have a great marriage and a great relationship with your mother, but your marriage must come first. Also, the kind of love you feel for your wife is a different kind of love than the kind you feel for your mother. You can love them both, but you have to take care of your wife’s needs before you take care of your mother’s needs. No exceptions.
3. Unity is an imperative in marriage.
Two cannot become one unless we are united. This means that a husband and wife are on the same page and moving in the same direction…physically, emotionally and spiritually.
Your mother is part of you. She raised you and was the first woman to love you and will love you forever. But she may have a hard time letting go, but she has to give up control for the sake of your marriage. And, YOU have to tell her this vital truth gently, but directly.
