5 Secrets Mature Women Know About Love That Young Women Probably Don’t
1. Bodies aren’t forever, so you have to love them at any age
At 50, women know that their body belongs to them, not the beauty models that are touted by all types of media. Mature women know they are so lucky that their body allows them to taste, touch, see, feel and live life.
2. Older women know that men may come and go, but girlfriends last forever.
When we are young, men can be like trains going in and out of the station. Maybe we are fickle and curious and don’t want to be tied down. Maybe men are fickle and curious and don’t want to be tied down.
But girlfriends are there for us to stay. Even when we settle down with a man, we still need our ladies. There is a special intimacy that women get from each other that men cannot match.
3. It’s better to fall in love with a good man rather than a hot man.
In our youth, we rarely care if the man we’ve met that night will have the same values and understanding of life as us in the morning. This often leads to short-lived sex and long-lasting emotional pain.
Older women, however, have been down this road before. So they look first for something that meets their emotional needs. Because these ladies are aware that if their emotional needs are met, their sexual desire increases at a rapid rate.
4. A lull or a funk does not mean the end of the relationship
When we’re younger, we have a hard time enduring prolonged silence during a date, let alone a period of time when we’re in a relationship where things just aren’t going. As we get older, we begin to realize that we don’t have to make a big deal out of everything, that we can take a wait-and-see approach before slamming the door behind us for good.
5. Older women like themselves much more
From time to time, self-doubt will creep in, there will be doubts about how they look. But they will surely be tempered by gratitude that they are still here, that there is still something to learn, something to take from this beautiful life.
