6 most common lies married men say to start an affαir with you
The only reason why many women, including very intelligent girls, end up with married men is his tongue’s craftiness. The man will promise heaven and earth, but sadly, in the end, he delivers nothing but ѕє𝔁.
His best shot is to lie and tell you what you want to hear to keep you interested otherwise, who would fall for such a scumbag without a little nudging?
What are the common lies, and married men will tell you, and why are they effective? Listed below are the most common lies that married men will tell you to start an affαir with you.
1. My marriage is over
The award for the most uninspired and the laziest lie goes to “My marriage is over.” This is the first among the stinking pile of lies they dump on you. The whole idea is to look vulnerable to the new woman. If he is lucky, the woman may be moved by the story and actually buy into his BS. Here’s the truth: most married men looking for affairs may still want to go back to their loving home and perfect wife and kids, but not before they get what they want from you.
2. I am separated
‘Separated’ is a problematic to define. It means they are legally together but living apart. Like the previous excuse, the beauty of the lie is that he doesn’t have to show you the divorce papers to bait you in. Always do a thorough background check, ask around, it doesn’t hurt!
3. My wife abuses me
For all you know, his wife may have not hurt a fly. But this one is sure to earn him some sympathy from his new woman. By portraying his wife as a virago and you as his saviour, he’s actually trying to flatter you. And if you are given such a prestigious distinction, you would want to act the part right? Wrong!
4. I will leave her…eventually
So if you’ve been with this cheat for a long time and you are wondering why he hasn’t left his wife yet, here’s news for you: He never will! When a man is truly unhappy in his marriage, he will leave. Rarely does anyone wait for a fling on the side as a catalyst to leave the marriage. If he has been serving you the same speil since the time you two got “serious,” chances are he is perfectly happy in his marriage. You are just a distraction from his marital problems at home.
5. We are not having ѕє𝔁…
…but his wife is expecting another kid soon. Immaculate Conception? Not likely. No matter how hard he tries to convince you, don’t even buy this lie even for a second. If there is no ѕє𝔁 involved and they are an unhappy couple, why are they living under the same roof?
6. I am infertile
This is a great excuse men use to allay your fears of pregnancy. By claiming they are infertile, you are more likely to go be okay with barebacking or having sex without condom. Beware! You don’t know how promiscuous this man has been. There is always a chance of contracting STDs from chєating men.
Reference: thehealthsite.com
